The Heavy Burden of Resentment
From an early age, some parents, the school or part of society itself teach us the value that must be given to the act of sharing, not to feel isolated and to see that all good acts must be recognized and compensated. Likewise, we are aware that what is wrong must be rectified if we want to find such compensation. This understanding is essential from the beginning for the correct psychological development of people, although later we come across some who have not learned anything about this or do not want to apply it in their lives because they are simply not interested. These same individuals are the ones who harbor and foster feelings of envy, of rivalry. They mistakenly believe that you have to compete with others to achieve that recognition. They even fight because others do not reach their goals, showing themselves capable of trampling them if they get in their way.
The only thing that causes all this is more friction, irritation, problems and stagnation. And worst of all, they teach their own, the little ones who follow them, to carry out the same guidelines, instilling in them that this is the only way to become brave and stand out in life. Over the years, all these feelings become stronger and more consistent, becoming a heavy burden that one has to bear, always carrying that huge backpack full of resentments on one's back.
Experience shows that all these bad behaviors are useless and that sooner or later one has to realize his futile effort to follow this dark path, which can only cause suffering and failure.
Get rid of your own regret, get rid of that useless and increasingly bulky ballast that prevents you from moving forward. You are always in time to let go of everything negative that is consuming you and live fully by filling your mind and heart with good intentions and better actions. If you think that acting on the contrary you could find your approval, I have to tell you that "YOU WERE LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACE".